William Shakespeare wrote: “Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them.” Most family Caregivers I know fall into that last category.
This is a good time to celebrate the contribution of those volunteer friends and family members who care for loved-ones – not by a pat on the back, but in some concrete ways. Family Caregivers are certainty heroes, but not ‘Superhero’s (meaning they can go on endlessly and never tire).
Usually, Caregivers are not complainers and are often reluctant to ask for help. Because of that, I thought I would offer a few suggestions that will provide concrete help for those who are either a Caregiver or a Friend of one.
- Friend: provide a meal for someone who is caregiving. Caregiver: Accept/request a specific meal.
- Friend: Offer to sit with a loved one. Caregiver: Accept the offer for someone else to sit with or visit your loved one.
- Friend: Offer to run errands.Caregiver: Accept the offer and make a list.
- Friend: Clean/do laundry (even taking larger bedding to a laundromat). Caregiver: Accept the offer – you can’t do it all.
- Friend: Ask your friend specifically what you can do to help. Caregiver: Accept the help, answer honestly.
Additionally, ‘Alzheimers.net’ offers some very specific ways to help the unsung heroes in our world. Click on the following link for ideas: 7 Ways to Celebrate Caregivers
Additional caregivers resources include:
- 100+ Ways for Seniors to Save Money on Healthcare Costs
- AARP Online Community
- Alzheimer’s Association
- Assisted Living Research Institute
- ARCH National Respite Network and Resource Center
- Boomer’s Roadmap to Aging in Place
- Caregiver Action Network
- Caregiver Guide
- Eldercare Locator
- Everything about Bed Sores
- Family Caregiver Alliance
- Financial Resources for Seniors
- Fully Accessible Guide to Home Loans for People with Disabilities
- Guide to Senior Nutrition
- Hospice Foundation of America
- How to Start a Dialogue with Aging Parents
- Legal Planning for Alzheimer’s and Dementia
- Moving To Assisted Living
- Medical Alert Systems
- Mesothelioma Caregivers
- Mesothelioma Center
- Moving Tips for Seniors
- National Clearinghouse for Long-term Care Information
- National Alliance for Caregiving
- National Institute on Aging Information Center
- Nursing Home Abuse and Neglect resource
- Power of attorney guide
- Planning for the Future for Seniors with Special Needs
- Retail Savings Guide for Baby Boomers
- Sleep Resources
- Senior Health Resources
- Senior Guidance
- Social Security Administration
- State Health Insurance Assistance Program
- State Laws and Nursing Facilities
- Veterans Administration Caregiver
- Veterans Benefits for Seniors
- Veterans Pension
- Well Spouse Association
Remember, you can’t do it all whether you are the caregiver or friend. Sometimes the best help may be a welcome visit that provides a temporary distraction.
(Disclaimer: Though I check all links for reliability, I cannot personally vouch for each company listed. Please use wisdom as well as your own discretion when engaging with any of the resources listed above.”
Keep in mind that links can change. If you discover a broken link, please make me aware of if so I can fix it. Thank you.
Has your world been touched by dementia? My recent book, “Finishing Well: Finding Joy in the Journey”, is a collection of stories and tips about doing life with my Mama. May it encourage and inspire you to find the joy on your own, unique journey.
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